Basics of Humanity

Since the time i have come to mumbai, i have met many new people, met few old friends, interviewed a lot of patients....from all the conversations i have had with all sorts of people met till date, i believe more in carl roger's theory...he says that everyone has the ability achieve success and everyone attempts to reach self actualization....however i feel that in today's competitive world we have forgotten this....apart from the theory part i think we have lost respect for other human being...i believe that everyone is trying to do the best in the given life circumstances of that particular individual..everyone is achieving some or the other thing everyday....but somehow many of us seem to show pride in things that are not really in their control like cast, financial status and intelligence....there are also some people who believe that what they have achieved in life is something so great and develop superiority complex...they stop seeing achievements of other people...being happy about your job, position, education and many other things is one thing but having that extra tinge of see i am so different seems to kill basic respect for other human being....i strongly believe that every human being achieves a great a success in their respective life in given circumstances...some who can't are called the failed ones which kills their self esteem all the more....let's respect them for at least trying hard...and there will be a set of people who will not try but crib and it is okay to not respect but that does not make them a failure...cause again it is beyond their control to see their ability...and in our world some of them are called mad people, psychotics, neurotics or just a waste....but i believe such people may need help to realize and a little to push to see their ability to achieve greater success which again can be materialistic or realization or emotional growth....but basic respect and believe that everyone is doing some or the other thing towards their idea of success is necessary and which can not fit in any terms like job, money, fame or anything else..it is more internal...to each it's own..no matter what your position, job, money, education should not change relations and your view towards others....i believe.